Hi David.
The last time I loaded 9mm with 124 gr I used the following load:
4.2 gr N320, cartridge overall length 1.165"
This gave me a power factor of 129 in my Sphinx.
As for seating depth, 1.165" is the minimum recommended seating depth, it should reliably in all guns while not exceeding maximum pressure.
In general you'd want to go as long as possible, this decreases the 'kick' of the recoil. For most guns, the accuracy improves for longer rounds, as the gap between the bullet of the chambered round and the start of the rifling decreases. Start at the minimum seating depth and work the length up until they don't fit in your mag or you get cycling problems with your gun.
As for crimp, I'd recommend somewhere between as little as possible and none at all. If you are using copper coated projectile you should be able to use only a small amount of case mouth flare, and subsequently only need very little crimp to bend the case mouth back. Again, to find the optimum for your gun, start with a moderate amount of crimp and then reduce it until you start to get chambering problems.
Hope this helps
Michael